Love~I’m Sorry

Why is it so hard for a person to say I LOVE YOU OR I’M SORRY?

Some people believe that it is pride and ego.

    

                                               

Some may think that a person may be afraid to reveal their inner feeling for fear of rejection. They are afraid to say “Sorry”  because it is a sign of being the weaker person. Saying I am sorry is never easy to do. Some may think — I am not apologizing for anything, because I am not wrong, I am right!!  Boy are they wrong. But the more you apologize for small things, when it gets to the big things you have no problem saying “I am sorry.”

If you LOVE someone say it, a person has no idea of how you feel until you tell them. People can guess of how you feel, but why guess when you can tell them. Of course when you tell someone who you love them, it should be coming directly from the heart, not with the thought of I won’t say it until to them until they tell me. It should be something you feel and want to let them know just how you feel about them.

Sometimes the simplest things to say are the hardest things to say.

Forgiveness

Why do people continue to hold on to what someone else did to them? Guess what they have moved on and are doing what ever they want, while you are still walking around mad or holding grudges.

I know that you’ve heard all of this many time before. But it’s really time that you listen to what is being said. Dig deep down inside and just say ok it happened. But I will survive! I can and will survive this.

Forgiveness is needed in order for you to move ahead on your journey. Heal from what hinders you.

Golden

Many people are living their lives for someone else, or trying to be something that they are not.  Why not live your life-like it’s meant to be lived– Golden!!

Some people walk around mad and upset about everything & everyone, Why???  Just think about these things…1st you have LIFE, 2nd you get the opportunity to walk and talk, 3rd you have a place to call home, 4th if you are employed, then you can be grateful for that, 5th if you drive, then you have a way to get around.  You have many things to look forward to when you open your eyes. There are a lot of reasons to be unhappy about things, but it’s probably better for you to just be happy about the simple things.

No day is promised to us, so learn to appreciate the simple things and let go of the things you can’t change.

Had to reblog!

Morning Story and Dilbert

Women have strengths that amaze men…..IT IS THAT
They bear hardships and they carry burdens,
but they hold happiness, love and joy.

They smile when they want to scream.
They sing when they want to cry.
They cry when they are happy
and laugh when they are nervous.

They fight for what they believe in..
They stand up to injustice.
They don’t take “no” for an answer
when they believe there is a better solution.

They go without so their family can have.
They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
They love unconditionally.
They cry when their children excel
and cheer when their friends get awards.

They are happy when they hear about
a birth or a wedding.
Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They grieve at the loss of a family member,
yet they are strong when they
think there is no strength left.

They know…

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Not Easily Broken

Not Easily Broken is a powerful statement for a person that has gone thru many challenges. You’ve gone thru the fire, the rain, the storm and yet you still stand.

Think about all the things that you’ve gone thru, you may have come out scarred or slightly fractured, but you’ve made it thru. It’s always a great Blessing to be able to persevere thru what the devil thought he had you at. Where was your pothole? It probably stopped you slightly, but it didn’t stop you permanently. Thank God for your victories.

God is going to use what broken you down to build you up!

Journey

As the year starts coming to a close, I reflect on everything that happened this year, and wonder was it productive in my progress of this journey? Although I wondered at times & thought at that time it wasn’t it productive, but it was.

No matter what we go thru, nothing remains the same & everything will change and gets better. Sometimes we are pushed in to something better and I had to accept that push and keep moving.

With all the changes that I’ve endured this year, I wouldn’t change a thing, its all a part of the process in my journey.

You are bound to head down the wrong road, but there’s always an opportunity to change directions and get back on the right road.

 Appreciate the journey of your life.

Stand Still

One of the hardest things to do is Stand Still.  Stand Still when you are ready to move. You think ok let me just go ahead and move, but know if you move now it may not work out the way you hoped it would.

Proverbs 11:14 – Without good direction, people lose their way. Don’t move until you are lead to move.

Running ahead of God accomplishes nothing, but set backs.  Stay set so you can be set up for where He wants you to be.

Part of the PLAN

You ever wonder why things get worse before they get easier or better? It’s because it’s all a part of The Plan.

Notice that you pray and pray and you think ok this is not going to happen for me. It will happen for  you If that’s part of His Plan for you.

You can’t spend your life talking about what didn’t happen, what did happen that wasn’t supposed to happen that way. Everything went the way it was supposed to go, all part of His Plan.

I always knew everything happened for a reason, it just took a little longer for me to figure  out “Part of the Plan” was His Plan. That old saying, go ahead and make your plans, but if it’s not part of His, it won’t work out for you.

Perfectly Imperfect

Every person knows that there is no such thing as a Perfect person. When people say that they are “Perfectly Imperfect”, I think they are admitting that they are not perfect, but infact imperfect and ok with admitting that.

Christians would agree that God didn’t make mistakes when he made every single one of us. Their is not a single person that is the same. Similar in a lot of ways, but never the same.

If there are things about yourself that you don’t like change it. But no matter what you can’t go and buy a new you, so own your imperfections that can’t be changed. Be happy in your own skin. You were made specifically the way you are.

Settling

The Free Dictionary definition of Settle For – to accept in spite of incomplete satisfaction.

People settle because they are impatient. They settle because they believe that this might be their last chance for something so let me grab it. They never take the time to think about if their were any signs that this might be for them.

People decide to settle for lack of having ambition of what could be out there for them & lack of faith. Faith tells you to have confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we don’t see~ Hebrews 11:1.

Women are probably the quickest to settle. They settle for that man who is not their Boaz. They settle for a man who is not good to them or for them, but some how they think he is. Why settle when God has the best for you.