Why do people continue to hold on to what someone else did to them? Guess what they have moved on and are doing what ever they want, while you are still walking around mad or holding grudges.
I know that you’ve heard all of this many time before. But it’s really time that you listen to what is being said. Dig deep down inside and just say ok it happened. But I will survive! I can and will survive this.
Forgiveness is needed in order for you to move ahead on your journey. Heal from what hinders you.