Are women over achievers or do they choose to put other’s needs before their own? Some women wait until after everything is done, before they go and enjoy themselves. Are we that much of perfectionists?
Most women say:
I will wait until after the kids finish high school and on their way to college, before I finish the goals that I’ve set for myself.
I will wait until the kids are gone before I redo the kitchen.
I will wait until the kids are gone before I return to school.
Yes our thought process for waiting until the kids are gone makes sense to us. We’ve put other’s needs before ours. That’s just what most mothers do.
There’s nothing wrong with that, that’s just a part of the make-up.